Embracing Change: How Stoic Flexibility Can Lead to Personal Growth

In today’s whirlwind world where "flip-flopping" can seem like a political sin, it’s refreshing to revisit the Stoic philosophy, particularly the value of staying true to what is just and right, while remaining open to change when justified. Stoicism teaches us the importance of commitment to justice but also encourages us to embrace new knowledge with the vigor of a student, ever willing to learn.

Seeking Truth

Marcus Aurelius, a poster boy for ancient wisdom, famously said, “If anyone can prove and show to me that I think and act in error, I will gladly change it - for I seek the truth, by which no one has ever been harmed. The one who is harmed is the one who abides in deceit and ignorance.” This quote isn't just about being correct; it's a call to intellectual humility and integrity.

Why is changing your mind seen as a weakness? Perhaps because in a society that prizes confidence and conviction, uncertainty can look like indecision. However, the ability to change your mind is not just a sign of flexibility; it's a testament to courage. The courage to admit that the world is vast, complex, and forever changing—and so are our understandings of it.

Open Up to New Perspectives

To live a life of growth and learning, we must be open to new perspectives and information, especially when they challenge our current beliefs. This openness isn’t a betrayal of our core values; it’s an affirmation of our commitment to the truth, the most stoic pursuit of all.

So, let’s put on our thinking caps (togas optional) and dive into a life of continuous learning and Stoic growth. Because really, the only true mistake is in refusing to learn from them.

Author: Michael Marani